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Our adult children share the benefits of being taught Proverbs…
look these up In my last blog post, I shared the importance of sharing the book of Proverbs with your children. I recounted how my husband had read through and discussed Proverbs with each of our four children. He met with them individually one month each year until he or she graduated from High school. This began after each had become a Christian, so Proverbs was read 8-12 years depending upon their age of salvation. We found this to be a very fruitful study for them and began to see the Word really take root in their daily lives.
rencontre easyflirt Our four children are all now grown and married with children of their own. I posed this question to them recently. “How did reading Proverbs with your Dad over the years affect your lives?” I now will share each of their responses to this question in their own words…
browse around here Our oldest, Billy, replied in this way. “It showed me what Godly discipline looked like in watching Dad’s consistency as he read Proverbs every January for years. It revealed Dad’s desire for me to read the Word and apply it to my life. It helped me in my achieved goal of saving myself until marriage for my wife. And it showed me the need for Godly wisdom in my day to day life.”
you can try this out Our second son, Timothy, shared these thoughts. “Reading Proverbs so often with Dad was very helpful through my life in teaching me about making wise decisions in every aspect of my life, whether in choosing my friends or my wife and just choices in life in general. It showed me the importance in seeking wisdom from the Lord more than worldly thought or things. Erin, my wife, and I are going through Proverbs right now and I will definitely read it with my four sons as they become older.”
comment rencontrer une fille sur facebook Katy, our oldest daughter, responded this way. ” Proverbs is still my favorite book of the Bible. I liked being able to ask Daddy questions as we read through the chapters. That helped me understand it better. I still often read my Proverb for the day and I will definitely read it with my children.”
http://www.techhelpnumbers.com/font/882 Kristen, our youngest, share these thoughts. “I appreciate it now as an adult that Dad took the time to go through the Word with us consistently each year. I knew it was coming and that it was important, though I often did not appreciate it as a kid. (Dad was consistent in telling proverbial jokes too. (ex.- the leach has 2 daughters, crying give, give). These times of reading Proverbs helped me come to an understanding of the importance of having wisdom and knowledge in my life as the greater concept. I saw Dad’s spiritual leadership in our family. He took time to do this . It was a great example to me of a Godly father who wanted to expose me to God’s Word. And it was also a picture that helped me see what kind of husband and father to my children that I would want.”
pure sitio de citas So whether it is Proverbs or any of the Bible…. teach your children the Word of God and it will not return void but bring fruit when they are old….
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Hear my son; hear my daughter the instruction of the Lord.
In a previous post, I pointed out the benefits and blessings of seeking wisdom as we are instructed to do in the book of Proverbs. I continue now to look at the value of teaching the wisdom of this book to your children. Children are likened to little sponges. They are going to soak up whatever you pour over them. Your three year old can use technology as well as you can, or at least as well as his grandparent can. He can sing songs, repeat commercials and many of your own comments. And.. he can also learn God’s Word! Do not neglect teaching him verses beginning at a young age.
When our children were elementary school age my husband began reading Proverbs with each of them. He chose the month of their salvation to be the month that he would read through Proverbs with them. Of course, we had other times of verse memory and Bible stories, but this was each child’s special time with their daddy to read Proverbs. Each day 1 chapter would be read and discussed, so by the end of the month they had finished the 31 chapters. Year after year this was their practice through high school.
We saw how, over time, these words really sunk into their lives and hearts. For example, Proverbs was a platform for teaching sex education for one son as “rejoice in the wife of your youth” and “have nothing to do with the prostitute who awaits in the street.” were read and discussed. Our daughter commented on why she had turned down a date with a certain young man because…”she was to have nothing to do with an angry man”. There were numerous such applications that could be seen in their lives.
So I encourage you to teach your children Proverbs. Use whatever method God leads you to use. Be consistent and do it when they may not be all in… It will definitely be worth your time. God’s Word will not return void. Prayerfully trust God to work these truths into their hearts. An added benefit will be that you will come to know this book really well.
After writing this, I asked each of our now grown children how studying Proverbs in this way affected their lives… Their responses to this question will be in my next post. So stay tuned….
“One generation shall tell of Your works to another and shall declare Your mighty works.” Psalm 145:4
” They shall tell of the Lord to the next generation. They shall come and declare His righteousness to a people yet to be born that He has done it.” Psalm 22:30
” Then, we your people, the sheep of Your pasture will give thanks forever, we will show forth and publish Your praise from generation to generation.” Psalm 79:13
” The older women are to teach the younger women…” Titus 2:4
I think we have made this command much more difficult than it really is! God says we must pass Him and His works and His Word on to those who come after us. Of course, we first must know Him, for we can not pass on what we do not know. We must know His wonderful work of salvation and God’s on- going sanctification in our lives. We must also truly believe in the power and life of His Word. But we are to obey this command!
To whom do we pass it on? Well, first of all, if you are a parent, you must pass it on to your own children. First and foremost, God wants us to teach of Him to those with whom He has entrusted us. Friends of your children that hang out at your home will catch this teaching also. As grandparents, you too have a role, though not primary, to teach God to your grandchildren. Then we must pass on God’s Truth to those who have not heard; whose own families did not teach God and His ways and word. We must be spiritual moms to those. If you do not have children, ask God for those spiritual children, who need you to share your life with them.
So now you may say, I am not qualified to do this. I will leave it to the church, the teachers and pastors, the Christian school to pass it on. All of these are secondary to what God has called us to do first…especially with our own children. What qualifies us?
Do you have the Holy Spirit living with you?
Are you a mother?
Are you an older woman, not as much in age, but you are just a little further along in your Christian walk than another?
Have you learned lessons from life experiences, both the successes and the failures?
Do you have a heart to pass on God’s Word and His mighty works in your own life? Why not?
None of us have it all together. We all need Jesus each and every day. We each have our own path, but we can encourage others along the way and point them to the Author and Finisher of their faith. (Hebrews 12:2)
What are the rewards of passing it on?
Nothing blesses me more than seeing my children teach their children in the ways and words of God.
Nothing refreshes me more than to see God’s Word received by a new believer with great enthusiasm.
Nothing is more important than sharing in that which is eternal; the Word and Love of God.
Nothing is more satisfying than knowing I have obeyed my Father.
It only takes one generation to drop the ball and not pass it on. I do not want to be the one who fumbles and fails to pass on the Truth of God.
It is a great privilege to come alongside others and teach them how to live life, nurturing them to godliness.
And more than even all of this; I think it makes my Father God smile…
1Peter 3:3-4 tells us to, “Let not yours be the (merely) external adorning with elaborate interweaving and knotting of the hair, the wearing of jewelry, or change of clothes; but let it be the inward adorning and beauty of the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible and unfading charm of a quiet and gentle and peaceful spirit, which (is not anxious or wrought up, but) is very precious in the sight of God. (Amp. Version)
How can we adorn ourselves inwardly? Seems the world around us focuses entirely on outward adornment, especially the adornment of women. The fashion and cosmetics industries make millions, promising to make us beautiful on the outside. Not that I don’t appreciate a little makeup or a flattering garment, after all the verse says our adornment is not to be ” merely” outward. But the attention, time and money given to outward adornments often greatly outweigh the time, thought, and prayer given to inward adorning…
We know God looks on the heart and not on the outside. So how are you adorning your heart? What am I doing to adorn my hidden person, that deepest part of my heart that only God sees? These words in 1 Peter tells us clearly what is precious, so precious to our God, and with which we are to adorn our hearts. It is the incorruptible and unfading charm of a gentle and peaceful spirit. Who would not desire unfading charm? Who would not desire to be ruled by a peaceful spirit? Who would not want to be gentle with our words, our lives? These verses are not talking about a certain personality, but a matter of ones’ spirit, of ones’ hidden person.
Later in 1 Peter 3 it speaks of the women who have gone before us who “HOPED in GOD”. This is key to having that gentle and peaceful spirit. As we put our hope, our wholehearted trust, our confidence in our God, then and only then, will we have this inward adorning. When we trust Him, our fears and anxiety are driven away and His gentleness and peace rules our hearts. We can even trust God with our husbands and their decisions when our hearts are ruled by Him.
Will our hearts look like this every day? No, it is a fight to go deep and trust long. We will fail. We will want to cover up and adorn the outward and show others how beautiful we are. But when the makeup comes off and we look at ourselves in the mirror we will be encouraged to look deeper. We will not want to stay the same, but lay that hidden part of us before our Creator Father God and let Him add the strokes of beauty, the colors of His life, and the Truth of His Word as He adorns us inwardly.